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If you’re looking for marriage counseling or relationship counseling from a qualified relationship and marriage counselor, then I’ve got good news for you: You’re in the right place!

First read this: “All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest – never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principles of equal partnership.” ~Ann Landers

With over 20 years of experience as a mental health counselor providing relationship counseling and marriage counseling, I can show you how to have a constructive relationship with the  many tools and resources I’ve developed for people just like you.

If you’re looking to improve your relationship, start by asking yourself these 7 foundational questions regarding  the quality of your core relationship:

1.) Do you check in with each other regularly and share what’s REALLY going on? Not just the day-to-day superficial stuff, but the core needs, wants, desires and requests.

2.) Do you put time and energy into the relationship on a REGULAR basis? This means truly making the relationship a priority. No auto-pilot here. Conscious and proactive choices to put the relationship first whenever possible!

3.) Are you still dating regardless of how many years you’ve been together? Once a week, or more, is best.

4.) Are you using your best communciation skills? You must address the toughest issues and dynamics with a level of respect and the goal of understanding, while having the ability to accept the differences of each other to make the realtionship really work.

5.) Do you “speak your partner’s language” every day in every way? This means that you know what it is that truly and uniquely lights your partner up, gets into their heart and soul and enables them to feel truly extraordinary.

6.) Do you and your partner work as a unified team with your children? This includes the balance between being parents and being partners, and remembering that your relationship is the foundation for the whole family unit.

7.) Whatever your passion is in your world of work, do you have a greater passion for your relationship? And if not, will you commit to find that passion because without that it’s like forgetting to put the intimacy logs on the bonfire of love and you’ll then find yourself with only smoldering ashes, or even less.

So….how are you doing so far? If you’re having relationship issues or a breakdown in your relationship, here are four more questions I’d like to ask you:

  • Have you done everything possible to improve the relationship (everything?!!)?
  • Have you been to therapy?
  • Have you looked at your own issues?
  • Have you really had the difficult conversations with your partner?

There is always a give and a take in a relationship. Yes, in all relationships. But if a relationship starts to tap you dry, and if it starts to take away your energy to the point where you don’t have anything left, then you need to do something immediately!

Remember: Leaving a relationship will never resolve YOUR issues. You simply take them with you to the next and the next and the next and every future relationship. That is, until you DO resolve them.

This is probably why 60% of second time marriages fail and 70% of third times fail.

These people thought that by changing partners, their relationship would change.

So maybe it’s a good time to call me and have a consultation to see how I can help you improve your realtionship situation.

I’d also like to give you a free special report  that will help you  improve the quality of your relationship…starting today!

Here it is: Keeping the Affection Connection in the Perfect Direction! 40 Sure-Fire Tactics To Keep The Peace – And The Love!! – Every Day in Every Way!

 

 

 
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