The A-Z of Happy, Healthy and Harmonious Relationships

Relationship Counselor Ken Donaldson Relationships

The A-Z of Happy, Healthy Harmonious Relationships (Assertiveness to Zealousness and Everything In-Between):


•    Assertiveness: You must ask for what you want…directly.


•    Boundaries: Know what to say yes to and what to say no to.


•    Communication: The cornerstone of all healthy relationships.


•    Deal Makers/ Deal Breakers: The absolutes and unbendable.


•    Emotional Management: Manage your own inside game.


•    Focus-Fear-Faith: Whatever you focus on is where you’ll go.


•    God: Practice your spirituality; whatever it is.


•    Humor: MUST have this for flexibility in the relationship…and life!


•    Integrity: Operating from your wholeness.


•    Jealousy: Just say “NO!” to jealousy.


•    Ken on Call: Have a coach or counselor you can go to help if/when you need to.


•    Logs on the Fire: Keep the fire of passion going.


•    Most Important: Operate from your values…always!


•    NO Blame, Shame or Games: Stay away as these are the three destroyers of all relationships.


•    Openness: Stay open, be honest and lead with willingness.


•    Purpose: Live according to your purpose…put purpose in your relationship…make it big and exciting!


•    Questions: Make inquiries and be curious….stay away from accusations.


•    Rituals: Create positive rituals to create ongoing positive energy.


•    Support Networks: Always have people you can turn to for help.


•    Tongue-Foo Bull-Fighting: Know how to step out of the way, when to listen and when to walk away.


•    Understanding: Always seek to understand and build a bridge.


•    Validation: Seek to find and validate each other’s emotions.


•    Work-Life Balance: Leave work at work…make time to relax and recharge.


•    X (Ex) Relationship Baggage: Leave the past in the past.


•    Yesterday-Today-Tomorrow: Live in today…period!


•    Zealousness: Always find the zeal in the life and bring it into the relationship.

 

Click here to get the FREE couples guide:
50 Ways to Love Your Lover: Keeping the Affection Connection in the Perfect Direction!

And Marry YourSelf First!

 

 

 

Be Sociable, Share!

    About Ken Donaldson

    Speak Your Mind

    Tell us what you're thinking...
    and oh, if you want a pic to show with your comment, go get a gravatar!