My dear man,at 85 years of age  but …

Posted:  September 9, 2010

Comment posted Marry YourSelf First: 5 Ways Women Prevent Themselves From Finding (or Keeping) a Great Guy by John Delevoryas.

My dear man,at 85 years of age  but feeling like 25,right now I have had the close friendship of a 40ish beautiful woman who wants me around for 40 more years,loves me,BUT NOT ROMANTICALLY.We have been this way for 10 years and are always excited to be together.She will give me 4 hours ONCE A WEEK and I cannot get more.Shall I walk away from this or treat is as a learning experience?I failed at TWO marriages,but got three great children out of the first.Is she AFRAID of a romantic relationship.She has had countless marriage proposals but tells me again and again that NO OTHER MEN can match me!!

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One Comment on My dear man,at 85 years of age  but …

  1. John Delevoryas on Sat, 20th Feb 2010 10:45 pm

    2. My dear man,at 85 years of age  but feeling like 25,right now I have had the close friendship of a 40ish beautiful woman who wants me around for 40 more years,loves me,BUT NOT ROMANTICALLY.We have been this way for 10 years and are always excited to be together.She will give me 4 hours ONCE A WEEK and I cannot get more.Shall I walk away from this or treat is as a learning experience?I failed at TWO marriages,but got three great children out of the first.Is she AFRAID of a romantic relationship.She has had countless marriage proposals but tells me again and again that NO OTHER MEN can match me!!