Relationship Counseling, Relationship Issues, Relationship Problems and Dating Relationships

Posted:  March 4, 2010

Ever wonder why people repeat the relationship patterns over and over again?

I received a recent question from www.AskKenDonaldson.com about relationship problems coming from dysfunctional relationship patterns.

Specifically, this person keeps getting into dating relationships which fail and she ends up hurt and heart-broken….AND the guy seems to always go back to his ex-girlfriend!

This is  a very common dynamic that I see causing many unnecessary relationship issues and relationship problems.

A little relationship counseling usually can correct these patterns.

Watch it closely, take notes and pass it on!

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And as always, Marry YourSelf First! to prevent this from happening to you!

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3 Comments on Relationship Counseling, Relationship Issues, Relationship Problems and Dating Relationships

  1. Mary Ann Greenley on Thu, 4th Mar 2010 1:29 pm
  2. Ken, yesterday started out painfully for me emotionally. I turned on my computer and there you were (as you have been for years) and this time I opened the e-mail and not only heard you but GOT what you were saying…Then YOU TUBE segued into a Tony Robbins seminar and what a great way to jump start, once again, all of the things I know, and with Tony saying, “Information without emotion is not retained.” That’s when I got that with all of the Seminars, Forums, Gestalt Therapy, John Bradshaw and on and on…that having the knowledge was not enough. I have to have my emotions involved to really fully GET what I KNOW. I always wondered how I can have all of this great information and still feel the “funk.” So I completed the Seminar that he was giving and am now applying to my present moment. There is power in motion focus, and feel the energy going where the “focus” was going, etc. etc. I know that you know what I am saying to you..That being said, it was YOU that started the process with an e-mail to me, personally, that has me back in my groove. So thank you for always being in my life and just being the best Ken Donaldson that you can be, always. Sincerely, Mary Ann

  3. Cathy on Thu, 4th Mar 2010 8:36 pm
  4. The woman who was seeing her ex’s go back to their previous relationship was the rebound person. She probably didn’t ask them how long they had been out of a relationship before starting with her, and the guys were probably still not sure what they wanted. They were still decompressing from their old relationships and needed space and time to think through what was really important to them. Unfortunately for her, she obviously was just a distraction to them, helping them through their pain.

  5. Patsy King on Thu, 4th Mar 2010 9:19 pm
  6. Hi, Ken.
    Interesting story…..my story would be different but yet, the same. Abandonment….look back at your childhood…..I remember as a very young child, I wanted to cuddle up with my mother on the sofa…put my head in her lap and I loved the way her long bathrobe felt….she pushed me away, would not allow me to lie down in her lap….is that my abandonment story? Do I now just want to keep proving that no one wants me and no one will love me? I feel my history has been ‘no available emotionally’ or in some way, not available.
    Thanks, Ken.

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