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Shift Happens, So Always Have Spare Change
“Got any spare change?” Surely someone has approached you in your lifetime who’s posed this question to you, right? Regardless of how you responded, there’s something rather profound in the question. Do you have any spare change? In other words, are you allowing space and flexibility in your life for change? I think it’d be…
Read MoreHealthy Relationships: Who’s on First? What’s on Second?
Who’s on First? What’s on Second? Navigating In, Through and Around the Independence, Codependence and Interdependence of Loving Relationships Remember that old Abbott and Costello skit where the two of them go back and forth and round and round trying to have a clear conversation about “Who’s on first,”etc.? If you do, then surely your…
Read MoreThose Cheating Hearts and Why They – And Their Partners – Don’t Change
I was on one of the local TV stations a while back to talk about infidelities, cheating and affairs. Not fun topics, but real and unfortunately devastating when they occur. Why do people cheat? Many reasons, but primarily because of dissatisfaction in the relationship. But what’s most alarming is the lack of trying to remedy the…
Read MoreThe A-Z of Happy, Healthy and Harmonious Relationships
The A-Z of Happy, Healthy Harmonious Relationships (Assertiveness to Zealousness and Everything In-Between): • Assertiveness: You must ask for what you want…directly. • Boundaries: Know what to say yes to and what to say no to. • Communication: The cornerstone of all healthy relationships. • Deal Makers/ Deal Breakers: The absolutes and unbendable. • Emotional…
Read MoreHave Faith in Your Partner
Relationship counseling tip: Have faith in your partner over doubt…invest in the building blocks of trust and cast out the termites of fear! Do you trust your partner? 100%? If so, what did you do to create that? If not, what have you done to create that? The trust factor in a relationship is one…
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